I want you to look in your own eyes every time you pass a mirror and tell you, your best friend: “I was born worthy. Your worth is not attached to your body size or even the fact that you have the loving and attentive man you deserve. Yippee for that!īe willing to let go of those old insecurity issues. It sounds like your man agrees with me that you are gorgeous and fully deserving of love, affection and pleasure. Subscribe to our daily newsletter for the latest in hair, beauty, style and celebrity news.įirst of all, my dearest queen I applaud you for taking control of your love life. What are some positions or intimate moments you can suggest for women who are a bit larger that allows us both to enjoy sex? I am finding that with missionary, I do not always have an orgasm and sometimes it takes us having sex multiple times in one night before I get off. We’ve tried a few new positions but due to my size in weight, it was rather difficult. He is totally OK with being on top but I fear that one day, he will get bored of our love life and want something more. However, I want to try something else to spice up our love life.
He can handle me pretty well given our height differences but when we are intimate we typically stick to just missionary. Problem? I am plus size and he is average (both is height and in “manhood”). Even though I have some serious insecurity issues due to my physique, he makes me feel special in moments of intimacy that allows me to be open. We talk and laugh during sex which I think helps me get in the grove a lot better. Let me just say, the sex is good and has always been fun. We have such amazing chemistry and I do not want that to ever go away. It’s hard to put into words how fantastic our relationship is. Are you in need of an intimacy intervention? Just ask Abiola! Now she wants to help you keep things spicy and fresh between the sheets. Passionate Living Coach Abiola Abrams gives love, dating and self-esteem advice on the CW’s Bill Cunningham Show and all over the web through her hit web series AbiolaTV.